“I miss you” doesn’t necessarily mean you miss me too. It is not needed as well. But at the start of every relationship and few days down the lane together,it imparts the feeling that the partners sharing the bond feel alike, smell alike, taste alike and thinks alike for each other. They tend to ignore the fact that sharing of the bond depends truly on the individual’s capacity. They may take part in the same activities but still they may perceive the outcomes differently. They may argue with each other while cuddling as to who loves more or who gives more to the relationship… but seriously that is really determined at the end of it.
Walking broken-hearts is usual (and at times can make you good at traffics i.e. careful) but walking with broken-hearts is a different thing altogether. It can make you a jay-walker leaving you with scars and bruises, yet still bumping into here and there. In that case just don’t think about how-it-would-have-been-if…… or why-it-didn’t-turn-out-the-way-you-planned-it-last-Valentine. Don’t think about what you put into it and what you got in return….coz…. that would definitely hurt…….(and why the hell do you want to run over and over again those memories that didn’t quite take shape? Did all of your exams go well in your school, even after your preparations? Every mountaineer doesn’t have a sunny day everyday. Even Bear Grylls still struggles so hard, eats live uncooked arthropods for his show everyday...even after being such a hit…..then what are you?) Just pretend as if you had a bad bad hangover last night and search for some bitter remedies…..(that may tastes bitter but is effective!!).
p.s: this post is not intended to be understood by everybody and I am no “relation-ship’s sailor man“ ….
See my boy..it does not need to turn-out-the-way-you-planned-it-last-valentine for it to be great. Love and life these two things go hand-in-hand no matter what we do..and its never is about what you 'give' to a relationship at the very end, its more to do about what the 'relationship' did to you...or rather for both of you.
ReplyDeleteand taking what you say about Bear Grylls into perspective well you see he does what he loves and loves what he does...so he still does it, no matter what it throws at him.think about it...
PS. yes, they can turn out to be quite a bore while caught in traffic, while the bloody coroner goes about his daily routine...but hey! its still the driver`s fault not the jay walker... No pun intended.:-)
good,,,,,,but i feel u can better than it.so keep writing
ReplyDelete..liked reading it!!
ReplyDelete@Anonymous: I agree. that's why i believe to keep the expectations from a relationship as low as posble.
ReplyDelete@sree: i feel that too whenever i am done with posting one, i will keep writing...:)
@Anonymous: thanks! like you liked it!